Clay - i agree, taking resposibility for ME is such a big part of this mental exercise; how in the end, we are the only ones truely accountable for our actions - or lack there of.
Sarah - you are so not alone, sister! and remember - WE believe in you! 
and OH MY GOSH!! Jessie has SOOOO been holding out on us!! A BABY BOY?? CONGRATS, JESSIE!! i'm sure he's just BEAUTIFUL!! no wonder you've been so busy!! Thanks Auntie Nina, for spilling the beans! tee hee hee!!